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Tuesday, February 17, 2026

Be aware of the patterns that control your life

 


We need to be careful of patterns in our life. They draw us into comfort zones; into easy choices. Yes, it begins with our response to certain situations in life. But most of our apparent responses are mere repetitive reactions basically born of our fears and insecurities. They are just escape mechanisms. Under their spell we start screeching with the searing passion of parakeets on their favorite tree.

A pattern thus consolidated over a period of time becomes the mainstream of our life in which all the tributaries—our assortment of attributes, talent and skills—flow into and lose their significance. Believe me, it’s disservice to life. It’s falling into a hypnotic claustrophobia with a foolish smugness and taking it to be the proof of our realistic, logical hold on life. It’s heretical to one’s true self and real, almost infinite potential. 

Under the influence of a powerful pattern in life, we feel there is stabilization, but in reality it’s our acceptance and surrender to one pattern, one push. It has popular appeal and cherished theme. As a wide-eyed, shy and introvert boy, lanced by an entire array of pre-teen fantasies, the solidly patterned person stops evolving towards maturity, wisdom and creativity.

The masterful masquerade of mediocrity. The paying propositions by the pauperizing king of misers, the hypnotic pattern. No wonder, life becomes one-dimensional under the rule of populist potentate.

So we need to routinely analyze the predominant patterns of our individual life. Test them. Critically evaluate them. Dissect them. Once we do that, we open ourselves to multifold choices and opportunities on a broader plain of existence.

Most of the time, a pattern well analyzed and remedied accordingly leads us to a still more superior pattern. That’s inevitable. It’s as per the cosmic law of evolution. So start asking yourself about the major patterns in your life. Study your patterns of thoughts, reactions, fears, insecurities, anxieties, comfort zones, greed, lust and relationships.   


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