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Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)

Friday, June 17, 2022

The Shadows of Love by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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...and finally the sun has to smile to drive away the particles of darkness clinging to the twilight mist, for life, for love, for happiness... These are the stories of hope, resilience, courage and conviction.

(Sufi) Sandeep Dahiya is the author of about a dozen books. His works carry murmurs of gentility and tender aroma of small things in life. He is charming, poetic and generous in his views about life and living. Sandeep elegantly portrays little things that have a big role in making our lives joyful. His writings are an eclectic blend of witty charm, experienced softness and scented receptivity. Not to forget that he writes with intelligence and insight. His characters are wry, insightful, whimsical, lively as well as funny.



Ice Cubes on Desert Sands by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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There is no separate story. Stories weave into each other like a well-spun fabric. Stories are like rivers, ever flowing, existing yet not existing, shifting still static, different and similar at the same time. The pieces. The patchwork. Stories within The Story. Yours and mine. Be the princess of your story. The seed in you carries the potential to be the tallest, luxuriant-most tree. The powerful force of creation propels the potential for maximization. Nature doesn’t want it to be a world of half-smiles, half-growths, half-blossoms and half-potential. There is a tendency for fullness. It pulls the process of evolution for the maximum, for completion, for what we call greatness. O my mind, my seat of potentiality, take my journey further. Be the seat of my strength, not weakness, Be the seat of kindness, not cruelty, Be the source of light, not darkness. You, me and all of us are born for the stories of greatness. Let’s share our stories to see through the journey. Please give me company while I tell a few stories!


Lovebites by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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The Spiked Coffin by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Millennium after millennium we have fought against real animals in the forests and later against our imagined enemies larger than any animal on earth to make bigger and bigger weapons, wasting our precious resources in its wake. The chink in the armor is glaring now: Our unpreparedness to fight against the 'small'. Corona teaches us a bitter lesson.

Is there any solution? Of course there is: Instead of pushing the stage of creation into a corner, from where it decides to launch a fusillade through nano-arrows, learn to balance things in all walks of life. Don't push nature too far into a corner. It always has the option to hit back. It may not be able to hit tangibly in the form of a dinosaur, it can but surely do the same through invisible Corona and many more.

There is a reason why we have pushed mother earth too far into the corner. It's our intra-Homo sapiens rivalry. Earlier we fought as the weak Homo sapiens who had to band together against physically far superior species. Now those threats are gone. So drop your weapons my dear ever-scared jungle man. We are almost biologically molded to keep fighting now after millions of years of fear and insecurity. Saving other remaining species from extinction is important, but far more important is to stop the virtual fear driven animosity among nations build upon false assumptions of ideologies, faiths and beliefs.



The Lust of Life by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Plato: "Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet."

And as love caresses you, you are supposed to turn a poet. And your life a poem. A life lived poetically nourishes your soul. The prose approach to life is simply to earn the conveniences to support you materially.

The brushstrokes of poetry softly touch the soul without disrupting its restful muse and bring out the nuggets of love, compassion, harmony and peace. If you are poetic in nature, you have the potential to be anything because all these elaborate extensions of your life, your dreams, your professional and personal goals, your milestones, the world around you, all these and more are nothing but a reflection of that poetic pure seed.



Mists on the Moon by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Thursday, June 16, 2022

The Bread of Stones by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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The Bread of Stones tries to convey the message that ordinary beings possess extraordinary potential to win against odds, to jump over hurdles, to smile over tears, and, most importantly, to be happy when there aren't enough reasons to be. They are the faceless constituents of a massive commonality. They are surrounded by a swiping generality. They are coloured in the monochromes of mundane reality. Still they are special. We have to acknowledge and celebrate the extraordinary in the ordinary people. I see heroes and heroines in my simple characters. They fight, and oftentimes fail, but write a little passage in the infinite book of life: an ordinary life that was lived substantially. On the small stage of life, they live very intensely. Somehow, the world would not be the world that is still beautiful without their contribution. They heave humanity onwards in its march to some better destination.



Holy Harlots by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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It is a rippling bouquet of emotions and heart-felt songs which have been the poet's companions during the toughest phase in his life. Most of these have been written in the charming countryside of the poet's native place at a small village in northern India. The poems try to capture the softest nuances of perceptible and imperceptible naturalities against the background of human trials and tribulations. The verses chime with an enamouring softness of the heart which sound Godsent against the present times viciously self-obsessed noise. The poems are exceptionally laced with silent spiritual reflections over the comforting quietude and teasing tranquility of the countryside. These simple swathes of aesthetics take the reader to a slow-paced world...far, far away from the 'maddening crowd'!


Dreams of a Common Man by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Dreams of a Common Man is a pickled, various flavoured, cross-genre pill of immediate taste. There are unforgivingly apolitical outpours of the helpless common man; there are magical realist traces of a pseudo-reality trying to portray a better, more convenient world; there are poetic outpours in prose through heart-touching little anecdotes; there are off-beat, unconventional attempts to lay bare a-bit-possible aspect of history; there are abstract thoughts that may capture any context as per the reader's suitability; there are not-so-fictitious versions of the happenings that matter to the common man; there is flailing, browbeating tug of war among the religion, faith, belief and non-belief; there are large cynical pools, ordinary collectives of the common man's helpless grudges against the larger forces...It is like T20 cricket, fast paced, expected, unexpected, unorthodox literary hits to the fence. It basks in convenient improvisations of style and substance. The creativity set free of the conventional genres and bound ideas. It captures the realities lying in dust at the mundane level, polishes the titbits of socio-historical facts with the crude, judgmental brush of a common man who is not bothered about the burden of his own name and identity.



All That Woman Is by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Lazy Ways to Truth by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Corona pandemic is one of the most difficult phases in our history. It robbed many a smile from so many beautiful eyes. Streams of individual pains flooded our terrain and formed a massive river of collective miseries. However, we have to walk through the dark night to welcome a new dawn. Of course, we did it. Many fell on the perilous path. It’s a tribute to those who unfortunately couldn’t make it. It’s also for those who made it. These common man’s chronicles are in celebration of life and living against all odds.


Beyond and Beneath by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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A Half House by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Chimp, Champ and Chops by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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The Kashmiri Girl by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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Most of these poems were written during the turbulent twenties of my life. In the early twenties, one is pursued by the glorious uncertainties of life. It’s a slippery, exciting and critically opinionated path. Don’t worry, it’s just a surge of extra energy, nothing else. The stage is shaky and realities are yet to get a foothold. You trample a lot of turf like a young colt spraying legs in all directions and galloping just for the sheer causeless fun of it. Of course, there are consequences but they hold their miserable importance in the eyes of the elders only. To the youngsters they are just irritable speed-breakers on the thrilling path. 


One’s hormonally buzzing self floats in a hazy mist of unripe, raw, juicy, sweet-sour tart of dreams and imaginations striking the moron mass of established norms. The hormonal-storms-fuelled beliefs, views, opinions and dreams create sparks and sometimes thunderstorms. Nothing wrong with that! That’s all part of our making. It’s a pretty noisy and shaky groundwork born of your ‘making’ that provides a bit of stability later in life. Ask anyone, most of us are very lenient and forgiving towards our youthful gallops even if these have given us many bruises after the hard falls. We wear them with pride like the symbols of our reaching the peak of the mountain. 



Lost in Red Mist by Sandeep Dahiya available at Amazon.com

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A courtesan fighting for respectable identity among wars and intrigues. A raped foreign tourist picking up the fragments of her violated self to redeem her pride. A helpless pawn in sex trade regaining herself back to begin a new life. The red mist of Kashmir eating away the little worlds of common hopes, dreams, and aspirations. A huge man lifting unthinkable weights for a living, only to be crushed finally. Someone gathering the nameless pieces of his scattered life on a platform. An Australian anthropologist in Andaman and the sole surviving Shompen tribal. A boy taking the onerous task of looking after his still smaller sister. His dreams which grow in disproportion to his circumstances are as good as nightmares. An old man, staying alone with a cat, patching up the holes in his present through tales. A Western tourist at Rishikesh opening her spirits while a whole world drags around her feet.


Love: The Ultimate Alchemy by Sandeep Dahiya available at amazon.com

 Love: The Ultimate Alchemy by Sandeep Dahiya

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This book is meant to set up an instructional manual to help one rise higher on the scale of evolution by changing one’s limited love, defined by family and relations, to universal love for a compassionate and all-loving being. Love for your man, your woman, your family, friends and near and dear ones is the seed that holds the potential to blossom into universal love for all and everything making you a loving person. So guys start your journey on the love path as a lover, as a caring husband, wife, parent or friend and proceed onto nurture the seed to help it grow into a robust tree of loving kindness for all. This basically is supposed to be the natural evolution course for your consciousness attached to this mater, this mix of materials called body comprising water and few kilograms of matter found in earth. The consciousness, the blueprint, the carrier of your previous journeys, is on the path of evolution, to merge into the all pervading super-consciousness, like a drop of water is moving to mix with the seas.


Love by Sandeep Dahiya available at amazon.com

 Dear readers my book titled Love is available on Amazon.com now.

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Love defines the countless pathways to the cause of creation as Lord Byron points out with poetic precision: that love will find a way through paths where wolves fear to prey.


Do you think fear, anger, hate, envy, jealousy, ego, lust and greed have their own standing? No. Just like darkness is simply an absence of light, all these tortuous tools that lynch our self are nothing but phantoms doing painful rounds in the absence of love. Like a tiny lamp puts out darkness simply by casting light, without fighting the dark, a simple ray of love, a symbol of our true self, chucks out the flimsy appendages of the unreal self.


There is definitely limit to everything in cosmos. But there is one exception: Love, prem as we say it in Hindi. 


One need not fight fear, fury, hatred, jealousy, distrust, ego, lust and greed at various fronts to defeat them. They have a common root: burial of your loving self, your essential nature, under the peripheral dust of illusions and ignorance, making you identify with what is essentially not your real self. Remove the grime, allow the light of love to emanate from your soul, enter your behavioral self, and all around you see peace, harmony and balance.




Love Nature to be a Loving Person

 

Frank Lloyd Wright: “Study nature, love nature, stay close to nature. It will never fail you.”

To know more about yourself, peek deeply into the marvelous folds of nature. Slowly, slowly the secrets will unfold. Nothing remains miraculous. You understand the whys and hows of life. Intuitive wisdom carried by the existential intelligence spreading in the form of cosmic energy makes you understand most of the things that till now puzzled your mind. Hitherto unlit dark corners vanish under the light of fresh understanding. With this fresh realization, you simply cannot help being more loving and compassionate.

L.W. Gilbert: “Those who find beauty in all of nature will find themselves at one with the secrets of life itself.”

There is a mystical pace of things in nature. You will find nothing is hurried. There is an inbuilt patience behind all this apparent running around on the stage of life and living. It makes you understand the limitation of your pursuits. Once you come to know the limits, you feel strangely empowered in the set of boundaries where you can gallop around like a happy-go-lucky filly in a barnyard.

You come to terms with eternal silence. In silence you hear the ultimate song. In the unruffled waters, you see the unmoving glimpse of the ultimate truth, like you see the reflection of a full moon in the tranquil waters of a lake. All these and more take you to the roots of creation, i.e., love.

Refreshing and exhilarating emotions swathe your spirits. Beauty braces you, kisses you. It's the finest balm. It then washes your tired self.

Look how patiently everything is waiting to reach its full potential. See how persistent are the pastures in growth and rejuvenation after all that uncomplaining trampling as the larger characters on the stage stomp over them. Rains say let's bathe. Winters say let's spread warmth and come closer. Summers say stay cool. Autumn says don't hold after ripening, just tumble down painlessly without regrets. Dawn has birth-time verve and freshness. Twilight claps for equipoise and balance. There are a whole lot of messages spread around. Keep your senses open and read.

A lonely path through the woods may turn out to be the biggest road you ever took to self discovery. You will have teachers all lined up to make you learn more and more.

Creation is gigantic. But you can have your eternally elegant pan-shots of vision with awareness. All your confusion, complexities and distress will be dissolved in the great solvent spread around. With a well-spread self, the pinching facts of life lose their edges, you forget the pain and smile, and instantly you feel like loving everything around you.

Swami Vivekananda: “External nature is only internal nature writ large.”

To know more about yourself, read nature. It's a reflection of your own self and vice versa.

This creation is abuzz with eternal seductiveness. You just need to pose and prick your senses to catch the strains. It's around you and so near. It's there in your small garden. It's there in undisturbed woods.

On closer observation, the simplest message is that creation is not human centric. This realization will turn you humble. And there is no greater manure for love than humility.

G.W. Carver: “I love to think of nature as an unlimited broadcasting station, through which God speaks to us every hour, if we will only tune in.”

Mother Nature is forever telling tales. Just that we need a restful mind to capture the nuggets of truth. Divinity and Godliness are not something you have to wait till you hit the vaults of heaven. They are already there in nature. Mother Nature is putting tireless efforts to speak out the eternal truth in the softest voice; another matter that the rhetorical force of unnecessary clatter plagues our beings, turning us deaf to the messages of truth, beauty and love.

A journey to explore nature is essentially meant to actualize the possibility of your inherent loving nature.

Tuesday, June 14, 2022

Mists on the Moon

 


Charles Dickens says the trifles make the sum of life. So don't be too serious about anything in life.

These are little tales of humour and humanity. Elegant, tender and meandering through common occurrences in the life of ordinary people, these tales convey the timeless principles of humanity. The stories carry delicately poignant messages. The characters possess winning humour and show the colours of friendship, love, affection and care. There are lessons on practical philosophy also. All in all, the work is meant to give the readers a pleasant escape from the harder side of life.     


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