The
moment you grasp the meaning and purpose of your life, you become indispensable
for the scheme of things around. You become a requirement for this whole
universe. You are no longer a burden for this cosmos to drag on. You just don’t
survive accidentally. Yours becomes a planned journey, shaping and reshaping
the environment not just for meeting your end, but also carrying the effects
that go onto touch many lives around. The sea cannot survive without its tiny drop.
Suppose a drop goes missing, the sea gets a hole in its heart and it just
cannot miss its drop. Similarly, this universe cannot sustain the hole left by
you. It sustains by you as much as you sustain by it. The only condition being
that you live consciously, that you know what you are doing, that you pick an
option only after deliberating over it. From chance living to well-meant steps
purposeful for the self and the larger humanity, all it takes is a small realization.
Just look back and see the trail of decisions you have taken in life. How many of
these were taken consciously, you being fully aware of the range of options?
How many of these were just pushed on you by the random happenings and chance occurrences?
Unfortunately, a vast majority of our options are born of random throws by
chance factors and we just grabbing some involuntarily. And a life dictated by uncalculated,
random options and opportunities, hits and mis-hits ends in a confusing travel
across the endless twists, turns, U-turns and back outs from dead ended streets
like in the puzzle game. We get wasted and wearied in endless turns, re-turns
and U-turns, always pushed on by the random factors that happen to spin out of
the lot. No wonder, even after travelling a whole lifetime, we are almost at
the point of start. We feel we haven’t done anything at all. It’s the puzzling
zigzag. It cannot be called a path leading to your destiny. Across the
serpentine criss-crossing and entangled turns of random paths and choices,
there are most suitable paths laid out for all of us. All we need to do is to
start living consciously. Walk slowly but mindfully. You may see others
hurtling fast on the racetrack around you, raising dust, crashing into
sidelines, shouting with trophies at some corners, but mind you, no journey is
complete and meaningful if one doesn’t feel contentment at the end. No journey across
the blizzard of accidental turns can result in the peace that you are looking
for at the end of the day. So plan your journey even if it means walking
slowly. You can even delay your onslaught on the exams or other important tasks
of life by a year if you decide to go into self reflection, weighing your
abilities and limitations, look at the competition. It’s better to watch from a
distance first. It’s better to walk slowly if you know what you are doing.
Mindless dash towards the finish line has no meaning at all. Stop if you have
been running. Pause if you have been mindlessly allowing yourself to be held by
the collar by the monster called life. Sit down if you have been standing for
too long. And then look around and think. Look at the zigzag pattern of your
mindless run so far. The actual distance covered will surely be very short.
Walk slowly like a wise man. A wise man walking slowly will still beat a reckless
sprinter at the end of the day. It’s better to walk slowly to the finish-line,
with your breath still under control, your legs still able to carry you. The
end becomes meaningful, preparing you for the other journey. Running out of
breath to the end line, and crashing straightaway has no meaning. This is no
victory. This is nor the destination. It’s not meeting the goal. It simply
means collapsing. The whole journey turns meaningless. Victory means being able
to smile after reaching the destination. So stop, look back, see the mindless work
and the stampede, pause for a moment, look ahead and walk to your sweet goal
with a smile on your lips. You become a winner instantly.
The posts on this blog deal with common people who try to stand proud in front of their own conscience. The rest of the life's tale naturally follows from this point. It's intended to be a joy-maker, helping the reader to see the beauty underlying everyone and everything. Copyright © Sandeep Dahiya. All Rights Reserved for all posts on this blog. No part of this blog may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without permission in writing from the author of this blog.
About Me
- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
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