The posts on this blog deal with common people who try to stand proud in front of their own conscience. The rest of the life's tale naturally follows from this point. It's intended to be a joy-maker, helping the reader to see the beauty underlying everyone and everything. Copyright © Sandeep Dahiya. All Rights Reserved for all posts on this blog. No part of this blog may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without permission in writing from the author of this blog.
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- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
Tuesday, February 4, 2025
Thursday, January 23, 2025
Sharper AI wit and duller human brains
In an automated and mechanized world
it’s not about good and bad; it’s primarily about good, better and
best—strictly in terms of numbers. The entire moral façade crumbles and the
vast potential of our fabulous brain is as much within the reach of the evil as
it’s available for the good. With the equation of good and bad sidelined, the
human race enters a hazardous zone. The quest for betterment, for more
efficiency bypasses the check-dams of morality and ethics. It’s a blind race
for achieving more and more material gains at any cost. When there is no
consideration for the costs that we have to pay, we naturally cross the balance
sheet. We then beat even the nature in hatching disasters and hazards.
We fly too high in the eternal quest
for more and more conveniences and better and better products. In the
unrelenting quest we burn our wings and fall down. The unreined and unchecked
impulse to go for betterment in every sphere of life churns out such models of
production and social norms that come with open-ended potential. These seem to
facilitate a process but carry an equal amount of potential for multiple adverse
effects that require solutions. For example, artificial intelligence will of
course churn out interesting and more and more media content, but it will put
challenges in the form of manipulated synthetic media content and deepfakes.
For the latter we need more and more technologies to manage the fallouts. After
a time, it becomes very difficult to tell whether we are creating more problems
or solutions. The confusion results in a melee. Just mere exhaustion and
tiredness born of the relentless march makes us believe that we are
progressing. While in reality we are simply throwing arms in darkness, caught
in the web of our creation, like an over-smart spider spinning a castle of web
and then forgetting the way out.
Wednesday, January 22, 2025
Imperilled democracies
Capitalism was one of the hands -- that too indirectly -- which pulled the strings of the puppet of democracy. Of late capitalists have begun to pull the strings -- directly. Individual powerful capitalists now are a parallel force in the world's largest and strongest democracies. Democracy is now more or less capitalist democracy. Well, when the entire world becomes a bazaar, and tariffs and profiteering become the geostrategic forces, the world will have major upheavals. Other democracies will be stretched thin in the wake of this reshaping of the two major democracies: India and the USA. Against this background, communist capitalism will be viewed in new light. It might be viewed as far more normal than it has been so far by the world outside the iron curtain. It will no longer be an anathema merely on ideological ground. Democracies will possibly lose the high moral platform from where they have been taking potshots at the communist China. There will be more practical judgment of China and its system of governance. Basically the greed for power, money and authority carries the same muscles, bones and tissues under the varying skins of political ideologies and systems.
Now the sun of blind profiteering will tan all types of skins in the same colour.
We get bored with what we have possessed for a long time. So don't get too surprised if the equations get reversed in future: democracies taking to communism and communists trying democracy. 😀
Monday, January 20, 2025
Honoring the dynamics of life in others
There is an age-old proverb in the
villages. Making a child laugh and playful might not earn you a good name, but
if she cries while under your care, it will surely earn you a bad name. Negative
experiences leave a far bigger impact on us than the positive ones. One sour
word very easily undoes the sweetness of hundreds of beautiful words. This
proclivity to lock the ‘negative’ in our mind while filtering out hundreds of
‘positives’ is the cause of strife, tension, anxiety and discomfort within. It
also very easily sours relationships.
We simply judge people for the ‘exceptions’
in their behavior, ignoring the common ‘mundanities’ of their demeanor. We
simply catch the black dot on the otherwise white board. It even seems that we
are operating as watchdogs looking and sniffing for the chinks in the walls. I
sometimes wonder whether we are actually companions while walking with someone
or are we spies going with a mission to catch the other person on the wrong
foot. No wonder we feel so vulnerable and insecure most of the time. A spy on a
secretive mission will of course be on his toes and full of tension.
It becomes so easy to blame others for
all the problems in our lives. But why would we always go searching for the
tiny black dot on a white canvas? Why would we simply forget the rest of the
white sheet? We are always looking, peeking, searching for those chinks in the
armor. It just shows how insecure we are. What breeds this insecurity? It’s
caused by the conflicts squirming inside us: the friction caused by our quest
for the eternal ease of ‘being’ and the poor ‘becoming’ that we are molded into
by conditioning, roles, stereotypes, expectations.
Most of
the time we are self-charged on the grand mission of aggravating our own
miseries. We are suitably helped all along by our ability to hold onto the
master illusion that others are responsible for all the shit flying around in
our lives.
We are always pulled in two
directions. Then we get scared. We are a scared species. We put the blame on
others in order to somehow clear our guilt for not being what we are supposed
to be. To have that conflict-free ease of being, we have to learn to retain our
vision spread out to still see the surrounding white even though the black dots
appear here and there. We have to accept and view situations and people in
totality. We have to accept this law that an all-white scenario is impossible
to sustain as per the laws of nature. It’s a dynamic canvas. Things and people
change and shift in shape, size and color. They aren’t stones that they will
retain the same appearance. They aren’t dead. They too are evolving and
growing, shifting and changing as much as we are doing the same.
It’s very easy to theoretically
discuss, write and understand this fact. But it’s very difficult to bring it
into practice. Anything that requires rewiring the habitual network needs a
regular exercise. So we can remind ourselves regularly that people aren’t stone
idols cast in the mold of our expectations. They are an evolving life. They will
grow and change and come out of the mold we have created for them to fit our
needs and desires. Accept this fluidity and sanctity of change in a living form
and most of the judgments will drop of their own. We then accept the black dots
on a white canvas.
The flow of life
Making love, a mere repetition;
falling in love, a mere repetition; falling out of love, a mere repetition;
doing this, a mere repetition; doing that, a mere repetition. I think we are
creatures of repetition. And repetition is primarily born of habits. So most of
the things we do are the results of habits. Why do we form habits? Possibly
because we feel safe. And why do we crave to be safe? Maybe because we have
fears. Well, then even fear might be a habit of the mind.
The moment we allow ourselves to be
driven by the habits, we limit ourselves to a customized social unit, for our
own safety. The society too feels safe when it sees fine creatures of habit
swarming around. Habits define a safe zone around us. They breed convenience
and that’s why we hanker after them. They define and limit us and give us a
false promise that we will be happy in that little zone. But very soon we find
that the happiness born of mere conveniences hardly brings juice and joy to
life. It’s dry. We still feel something is missing even though we adopt more
and more habits to erect sounder structures of safety around us.
The human spirit wants to fly and
habits are the chains. It wants to be free. But habits hold it back. When we
set out to chart out our own path, we have to break the mold of habits. Habits
clip our wings. They condition us, limit our potential. We have to do
everything in a way that it doesn’t turn a habit. Then whatever we do is an ode
to the present. It’s open ended and creative in nature. We create and move on.
The past doesn’t drag us. The future doesn’t make false promises. We flow. We
fly. We live.