Hasn't creation got an instinct for carrying burden ingrained very deeply in its fabric? There is an everlasting pull for expansion and more complexity. How can we avoid complexity of life then? Going against the primal instinct is a sort of reverse engineering. This is the evolutionary challenge. A kind of lavitation instead of gravitation. Fording the river. The ultimate salvation. The cessation of the urge to pull the burden and still be joyful. A state where every burden transforms into bliss. Pull your burden little lady. But don't forget to rest under the shade of the fragrant roses on the way. They are as meaningful as the weight you pull. And the journey turns joyful if you pause and greet the flowers on the way. And don't forget to acknowledge the presence of thorns on the path as well. Just be careful of them as they have their meaning also. They are there to help you watch your step and avoid a fatal fall. A bit of pinch now and then serves it purpose because it maybe avoids a fatal fall in the long run.
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About Me
- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
The tale of Cheesy Papa
A powder blue beauty is seen in the washbasin. A woodlouse, a dweller of old, rotten woods. Maybe it got its adventure too far and landed into the basin. Now it's a fun game, go up and slump down again. Maybe they take their struggles as easily as feasting and fun. So here it goes with its business. I take a pic and since it's a patient model for the shoot, it gets its reward. It gets rescued on a dry leaf and I leave it near a pile of dead wood. It's a very interesting little bug. Look at the range of its names: Granny grey in Wales, boat-builder in Newfoundland, Butcher boy in Australia, Carpenter in Labrador, Charlie pig in Norfolk, Cheesy Lou, Cheesy papa, Cheesy pig, Daddy grampher, Dandy postman, Fat pigs, Grumper pig, Granny grunter and scores of more interesting names. In every English county it has a different name. It can be a good pet for buggy parents. And is, most importantly, harmless for humans as it doesn't spread diseases. So raise a brood and give them as many names as your funny creativity allows you because they take name-calling very easily and in good spirits.
Tuesday, November 9, 2021
An invitation for laziness
The hare may have its huffing and puffing competitiveness. But it lives very anxiously. A tortoise, on the other hand, goes on its journey that isn't defined in terms of mileage and distances. It's both joy and motion both at the same time. Welcome to the snaily pace of the tortoise world! Here you acknowledge the smile of a wayside wild flower and greet the lone beetle on its journey.
Monday, November 8, 2021
Some thoughts in support of a Smile
Victory gives you a trophy; failure gives you a chance to fight for a still bigger one. Keep going. But never miss the beautiful scenes of life on both sides of your path. As long as you enjoy the free bouquets of nature around, life no longer gets defined in victory-defeat terms. It acquires a larger dimension. It turns meaningful by itself. And joy and happiness turn the natural, unconditional fruits of the path. Journey well. Never miss your smile.
**
Well there never was a destination. The only destination has
been to move from a painful journey to a joyful one. It's a very subtle change
in gears: From the outer shadows--which are ever shifting and fleeting--to the
inner substance which is ever unperturbed and waiting for the journeyman to
come home at long last.
**
So much for the conceptualized set of sins and vices. We
have too hypothetical concepts to tame the basic instincts in humans. A vice is
not a vice everywhere. A so called 'vice' with larger motivation loses its dark
shades. Without a supportive chorus in the background, it again becomes a
loathsome act in abstract. But there is hardly anything in total abstractness,
except in the pages of books and the brains revising these for one-upmanship to
win a point. Reality is too muddled up. There is hardly any vice that goes
totally unjustified. And rarely a virtue that stands perfectly justified. Read
Dostoevsky's Gambler. It treats gambling as a viceful and then not so viceful
art driven by the pure psychosis of a helpless heart mad after the chancy
windfalls of win and loss and even beyond.
**
Now I understand why economically challenged households have
bigger treasure in the form of children. As Mr. Micawber says in David
Copperfield:
"In our children we live again, and that, under the
pressure of pecuniary difficulties, any accession to their number is doubly
welcome."
**
To lead a successful social life, invest in a few relations
wisely and with soft emotions. Work and behave with people in a manner as to
have two or three persons who will always have a room for you in their house,
half a dozen at least who will always have a chair for you at their dining
table, a few dozen who will always have softness for you in their hearts and a
few hundred who will surely smile at you as you pass them. This, dear readers,
is the hallmark of a peaceful, happy, mundane life of a common man. If the
ingredients of joy are so earthly, why aim for cosmic shots then to find
meaning in life?
**
While we fret, fume and get frustrated for the things that
we don't have, feeling wronged both by the system and destiny, there are people
we carry on uncomplaining, even though they have just a fraction of what we
have, but deserve 100 times more than us. Just give a careful look around. We
have many in our locality itself so there is no need to pack bags and search in
far of lands. Doesn't it makes you feel the luckiest of the lot. A sense of
gratitude needs this much of attention.
Many times we think we don't have enough for our talent. So
many times we crib about having less for what we do. But then there are the
lives who could have been better than any of us just that they were born in a
ditch and circumstances never allowed them to come out. I see scores of such
unsung heroes on a daily basis and find myself humbled and cut down to my real
size.
**
What are tough circumstances? They are just some sick
moments needing doctoring from you. Take the pulse of difficulties. Analyse
impartially like a doctor. Put up the diagnosis. Prescribe a solution and come
out hale and hearty.
**
Don't take life as a mystery. It's an open book. Each line
has just one message: The time you are allowing to slip away without
celebrating my existence (and your own -- both are same by the way) will never
come back. So celebrate life. Light new lamps of exuberance, fresh dreams,
undying enthusiasm, unrelenting creativity and many more. Happy Diwali
everyone!
**
A continuous run is no fun without rest, repose and pause.
Inviting you to slow down and have a bit of rest...fast mode has no meaning
without the slow mode. A run is fruitless without rest. In any case we have to
stop to reap the rewards of our running, huffing and puffing...
**
A little song book of eternal hope, love and loss. A cup of
tea brewed with night blooming jasmine flowers. A perfect date on partially
sunny warm day! Ordinary has the hallmark of perfection. What else one needs in
life?!
**
The potted rose has turned into a heavy bouquet of roses.
Giving its best shot at life! You no longer fear death once you have given your
best to life and blossom the potential mother nature has given you. Smile full
and sadness vanishes. Light fully and darkness turns on its heels. And what is
a flower? It's simply mother earth smiling as you carefully caress a bit of
soil with loving hands. We create blossoms with our emotions. The potential is
already there. What we need is a gentle emotion and a bit of smile to create
something that adds to mother earth's smile.
**
Be a creator
Giving its best shot at life! You no longer fear death once you have given your best to life and blossom the potential mother nature has given you. Smile full and sadness vanishes. Light fully and darkness turns on its heels. And what is a flower? It's simply mother earth smiling as you carefully caress a bit of soil with loving hands. We create blossoms with our emotions. The potential is already there. What we need is a gentle emotion and a bit of smile to create something that adds to mother earth's smile.