The
adventure and fun of life decrease in proportion to the distance between the
point of your craziest, wildest urge of your heart and instincts on the one
hand and the low point where you chose to be, driven, rather checked, by your
fears, overvaluation, inhibition and assumptions, all of which stopped you from
saying 'yes' to the moment and the choice which had all the possibilities to
change your life miraculously. Never underestimate the consequences of your endeavors.
A butterfly flapping its wings in Africa is linked to the causes which drive a furious
hurricane in America. So no action is small, only our fears and insecurities
turn it puny, belittled piece of failure. Coming back to that choice which
could have seen you soaring in a sunny journey at the highest height, but which
you missed through over-analysis and chose to crawl on earth, cursing yourself at
every step over the so called missed opportunities. Long after that choice is
gone, and you cast a helpless look at the sweeping miles between where you
could have reached if you had the guts to say 'yes' to your heart and the poor
point where you chose to be, you just can't help but find life almost
meaningless. Destiny isn't a cheater altogether. There are moments passing
through our lives when, with only a little bit of daring 'yes' we can change
the entire course of our lives. Say yes to the liveliest, loudest, craziest,
wildest cooing of your heart. If not the destination (and there is no
destination by the way), you will love the journey for sure. A little stroll impregnated with your heart's agreement is far more substantial than hundreds of miles of sweating run if you have forced yourself into it. Those miles after miles are not the rewards to your self-punished self. That is the punishment for not being true to yourself. So listen to your heart, shut off all haggling by your mind which is tricking you by forcing you to compare your worth through the scales of others journeys. You have to have your own scale to measure the worthiness of your journey, how many miles you have to go, at what pace, at what stopovers and many more. Use others' scales and all you do is just self-fuck at the cost of lot of pain to your ass. So we always have the option of being a happy go lucky person instead of a self-fucking moron.
The posts on this blog deal with common people who try to stand proud in front of their own conscience. The rest of the life's tale naturally follows from this point. It's intended to be a joy-maker, helping the reader to see the beauty underlying everyone and everything. Copyright © Sandeep Dahiya. All Rights Reserved for all posts on this blog. No part of this blog may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without permission in writing from the author of this blog.
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- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
A real journey entailing the mirage
Life isn’t just sailing in calm, composed waters. Mostly, the waters are
stormy. That is the law of nature. It simply cannot leave things static. Things
will turn static only at the moment of the cosmic crunch, the opposite the Big
Bang when the universe will implode to start exploding again in the next spell
of activity. So till then enjoy the activity.
Overall, our character is defined by the manner we captain our little
boats to enter the peaceful waters, the doldrums, for
a time. Sailing in calm waters is not the reality though. The storms lurking
over the horizon is. Keep an eye on it as you are cooling your heels after the
last battle. And while you drop your knapsack, like a battle weary
soldier easing her of the metal armour and weapons, and look at the dreamy
destination she has toiled to reach which unfortunately doesn't look the way she
expected it. Don't forget this destination which you find short of expectations
at least gave you a journey and made you richer by adding positives to the man
and woman in you. Irrespective of the destinations, love your journey, for
there are no destinations, only journeys. There never was a happy person who
didn’t enjoy the journey to have his bumper lot of happiness in one lot at
reaching the so called ‘destination’.
Braving the stormy patch and
keeping an eye on the next one is the formula to become a successful caption of
your life. So simply be a journeyman or journeywoman. Quite ironically the
destination is just being there on
the path, simply journeying. Just
look into the past and remember all who have died and try to recall how many
reached the so called destination.
The only fixed destination is death which is the most uncertain event
(in term of its time of occurrence) for all of us. There is no such thing as ‘life’,
the hard-fixed noun. All we have is a sweet-sour poultice ‘living’, the verb,
the activity, the process, the journey. So do your deed, make your run, have
your shots at your so called goals and the process of doing itself is your
reward. Beyond that any idea of rewards and destinations is just like mirage in
the deserts.
The Big Bang was a poetic moment
Without
the seed of poetry there won't be any prose. Just like without the tiny seed
there won’t be a tree. The canopy, the full foliage of the tree is just an extension
of the dream lying with its realistic potential inside the small seed. The
elaborate network of trunks, branches, twigs, flowers, fruits and leaves is
nothing but a commentary on the small poetic seed. So all ye wannabe writers,
nurture the poet in you, who understands the value of pause in life, who moves
slowly to watch everything, sight and smell everything. Whose senses are open
to the inclusive interplay of wonderful harmonies of the supreme song, the universe,
the one song. Brushstrokes of poetry
softly touch the soul without disrupting its restful muse and bring out the
nuggets of love, compassion, harmony and peace. If you are a poet by nature
then you have the potential to be anything because all these elaborate
extensions of your life, your dreams, your professional and personal goals,
your milestones, the world around you, all these and more are nothing but a reflection
of that poetic pure seed. Being poetic is being the master of all the best-ever possible emotions as a human being. Poetry is the common soul of all art forms. It is impossible to visualize an unpoetic artist. Poetry is the womb that mothers all that has ever been loved and appreciated by the man and the nature. To be poetic is to love. You taste godliness by being poetic. The mankind has pictured heaven just as a huge poetic dream. All the myths, gods and goddesses are marvelous poet philosophers and poet soldiers. So learn to be a poet. Love yourself as a poet.
Double standards
Just waiting for the champions of Islam to speak against China. If they don't do it, then their selective fusillade against certain countries gets exposed. One thing is sure: it's never about religion, as most of the people believe, but basically about selfish geo-strategic reasons in turning countries against each other, or bring them together. From religious point of view, Pakistan should be China's biggest enemy, given mass atrocities on the Muslims in China. But they are the best of buddies. Are the Muslim Uighurs lee Muslims? It has to be clarified by the loud-mouthed champions of Islam. In the rest of the world they stoutly espouse the Muslim cause. So why this silence on Uighur Muslims in China? Or Chinese Yuans stuffed in your croaking throats have silenced you? Pakistan has been pouring all its collective energy as a nation into the Indian side of Kashmir, justifying its terrorist activities basically on the grounds of 'Islam in danger in Kashmir; philosophy. From the same religious benchmark, it should never see eye to eye with China. So it gets proved. Need more proof? By the way, go to Kashmir in India, you will be surprised to note that despite the violence and counter violence of decades, not even a single aspect of the religious life of Muslims has been affected in the state.
Silence of Pakistan, Turkey on Chinese repression of Uighur Muslims outrageous
Tuesday, September 18, 2018
The sleeping beauty on jasmine leaves
RIP Lime Swallowtail! A hearse of jasmine leaves and sadabahar flowers. You still look full of flying life, as if ready to take off any moment. You had your colourful days, flowers, nectar, airy swirls, rainbow days.
Quitely you landed on the tarmac of mortality, and your little ounce of spirit flies and takes off to the the highest station to be one with the primordial spirit. From limited to the unlimited. From here to everywhere. From these few colours to all the colours of paradise. From now to forever. From this beautiful pattern and design on your wings to the primal self evolving pattern of nature.
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