The posts on this blog deal with common people who try to stand proud in front of their own conscience. The rest of the life's tale naturally follows from this point. It's intended to be a joy-maker, helping the reader to see the beauty underlying everyone and everything. Copyright © Sandeep Dahiya. All Rights Reserved for all posts on this blog. No part of this blog may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without permission in writing from the author of this blog.
About Me
- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
Wednesday, January 30, 2019
Tuesday, January 29, 2019
The power of a tiny step and soft breath
One more step, one more breath
All you need to avoid a fall is to
take one more step, then another, and then another. You should be bothered
about just one more step. Forget about miles and more miles. These are
meaningless without the step just about to define your current journey, your
present. Being in league with one more
step makes you the real journeyman. It means you are right there, still
moving, still fighting. The chance of victory is always alive as long as you
are ready to take one more step. And the possibility of life is active only and
only because of the upcoming breath.
So mind your step on a beautiful
dawn. One more day, one more step and the fresh dose of the next breath. These are
the basic building blocks of a well-meant life, a purposeful journey. You look
too far into the hazy distances, and you lose yourself in the puzzlement that
lies scattered around. You mind your next step, and you immediately find
yourself. You mind your next breath and instantly you feel the enthusiastic
pulse of life throbbing in your veins.
Just like life means one more breath,
living means one more step. Life and living are just a beautiful symphony
between the next step and the upcoming breath, laying the foundation for the
next and then the next, and on and on. These set up the notes for the beautiful
melody which life is.
Each meaningful, mindful step becomes
the destination in itself. If you completely mind your step, you then need not
look for destinations and their assortment of heartbreaks far away into the
distances of time and geography. If you inhale and absorb completely the
portion of life provided to you in one breath by the existential forces, you
won’t feel the need to explore living in the farfetched quarters of make-believe
concepts erected in the hope of a happy, contented life. If you mind your
breath, allowing it to give you the most it has to offer, you won’t be running
into many decades of longevity to feel the elixir that living is. You get it,
right here, in an instant. Life then turns into living and a reward in itself.
One more step and one more breath,
taken under tender observation and careful awareness, are the building blocks
of life and living. They are the fabrics of your being. Work on them and you
get a wonderful fabric decorating your being.
Don’t fall, take at least one more
step, then another, then another. Only this much! That’s all you have to do for
life and living: one more breath, one more step. And your one more step becomes more significant than the endless miles and
still more miles. Your step defines miles not vice versa. One more breath, one
more step! Seeped in the awareness of this incredible duo, you will first
surprise yourself in the effortless ease you have walked on the path of life
and living. You create and retain countless chances to reach a point, where you
astonish yourself the most in your achievement.
The darkness isn’t completely dark as
long as the tiniest of a flicker burns steadily, unsteadily in any corner of
the cosmos. It holds the chances of light, of a win, of a fight, sometime when the
conditions are more suitable. Hold your light. Hold onto your chances of a full
blaze. It can even be the littlest star reflected in your fatigued eyes from
the farthest distances across stormy clouds.
Just look back, some
small-time remark of appreciation, some grateful bow, some serious
acknowledgment, some feeble smile, some tiny reward to the tune of INR 500,
some words of praise. Hold them. Cherish them. Pick them up from the dusty
corners of your room. They are the treasure. They are the light, they are the
breath, they are one more step. One more step is as important as the complete journey.
Or even bigger than that! A tiny flicker of light, lost in the darkish wombs of
loss, is as big as the big-bang of primordial light and fire that created this
universe.
Long before you conquer the world,
learn to be happy with the tiny rewards that hold your dreams in piece, which
sustain the life of your goals just like one more breath sustains your life. A
tiny word of appreciation will one day turn into a massive trophy, a huge
applause, with camera lights flashing around and thousands screaming fans. This
little smile on your lips will turn into a broad grin of triumph.
Hold
the littles in your life, acknowledge their role like one more
step keeps the journey, and one more breath keeps life together.Wednesday, January 23, 2019
Wednesday, January 16, 2019
The Art of Love and Smiles
The Elixir of Life
A look of hate snatches and steals a part of life; a look of
love adds something good to life. A hateful thought kills; an idea of love
saves life. Hate is the evil collaborator of death; love is the bright-smiled
custodian of life. Nurture the good and the best in you, it will in turn make
you more loving, the latter qualifying you for the real ‘living’.
Like most of the things, it can be practiced and learnt.
Practice smile. It’s a small pill of wellness. Learn to look at things with
love. Start with your food, water, whatever you drink, or whatever you eat.
Before you eat or drink, take a minute’s pause and look at the
thing. It’s the instrument of life, the soldier of your survivability, the keeper
of your life, resting before you on the table. It’s there for you, to help you
get strong and survive and live another day. At this moment there is no better
friend to you in the universe. Accept its friendship and brotherliness. Embrace
its camaraderie. And it will become a part of your system with far more
nourishment than you can imagine.
As you chew, swallow and gulp it down, it will become a part of
you. It’s something that will become you once you have it in your guts. The
moments before being eaten, it becomes a sacred part of your extended self. Accept
it. Look with love. Take it as a blessing from your guardian angel to help you
beat the negative forces hankering for your demise. The food taken with such
love and affection becomes the elixir of life.
Practice smiling. It will pave the way for you rolling with real
laughter later on in the journey. The tiny, feeble lines drawn by a delicate
smile will lay the foundation for miles and miles of undisturbed peace and
harmony in your persona. No wonder, I have a little smile glued to my face
while I type this. And a surge of contentment and happiness overtakes the
hitherto untouched, unlit, gloomy parts of my being. I feel happy and once you get
the feel of real happiness, you simply cannot help distributing it. You want
each and everyone out there to be happy and smiling.
All the problems out there, born of differences and
misunderstandings, are born not of hate
but lack of love. Turn more loving,
smile more. Hate is the darkness which just vanishes the moment you light the
tiny lamp of love. It vanishes like darkness from a pitch dark room once you
light a candle.
Hate is the phantom. The only reality is the lack of love and
smiles. By taking to a smile, you symbolically blossom a flower for mother existence.
And believe me, you yourself will be the direct gainer once you decide to turn into
a flower. Guys, let loose your alchemy of smiles and love. Believe me, humanity
will need more of smiles than mega-bombasting leaps of science in future.
I tried a small experiment of love and smiles on a plant. I had
planted some marigold flowers in my little garden at the start of the winters.
Yellow and orange marigolds sprinkled their unrestricted charms. All these
turned out to be robust flowering plants except one. The poor plant appeared
stunted, malnourished and didn’t grow. A few buds remained unopened and the odd
one which tried to smile, just bore a famished one-quarter smile.
I tried the alchemy of love and smiles. I started to sit by this
plant for a few minutes, giving it kind, sympathetic looks, caressed its
leaves, sprinkled water droplets on it. I just tried my level best to turn as
much loving to it as I would to a little child. And no miracle is beyond the
reach of love and smiles. The buds which hadn’t opened for a couple of months
burst forth with unrestrained hilarity. Right now it’s the best flowery plant
in my garden. This is what love and smiles are capable of!
So
guys, go and capture your share of life’s real worth through the simple
technique of love and smiles.Saturday, January 12, 2019
The Cosmic Mirage
Here is the end; here is the
beginning
Mix the contradictions. Churn out a paste. Blend the duality.
Grind it well. And you get nothing in the so called ‘everything’. Is there any
hard and fast line between the so called two ends of our perception? Is ‘black’
only ‘black’? Is ‘white’ only ‘white’? No. They seep into each other and relatively
define each other, apparently though not in reality.
Dark is not just ‘dark’. And light is not just ‘light’. Dark is
only ‘less light’. And light is just ‘less dark’. Duality sustains on our sense
of ‘ego’ driven by our perception hungry senses. It turns our consciousness
into self-consciousness.
Is there any pure, unadulterated ‘pleasure’? No. Pleasure is a
state of having lesser pain. Pleasure has a mild dose of pain in it. Always!
Find out a person who has no trace of pain in him. Is there any condition of
just having ‘pain’? No. Pain is just having lesser degree of ‘pleasure’.
Pleasure carries pain in it, and pain carries pleasure in it.
Our ego, our sense of ‘I’, stretches the point of reality in two
directions for suitable duality, of contradictions. Imagine the morning ‘twilight’
when the day’s rising light mixes with the night’s vanishing darkness. The
balance! The melting of duality.
Is there any state of something being perfectly ‘cold’ or
perfectly ‘hot’? No. Cold is just lesser hot. And hot is just lesser cold. The
reality just gives the illusion of apparently getting stretched in opposite
directions. It’s the see-saw battle. We look this way, then we turn to the
other side. By subduing the element of ‘self’ from pure ‘consciousness’, one
can get a balanced vision. Then the funny mirage of seeing two avatars of the
same thing becomes invisible.
The two things are inseparable, and are just our conveniently
defined two points on the plain of reality. Death is not just death in itself.
It is the beginning of life, of birth. Birth is not just birth. It is the
beginning of death.
Same is the case with the apparent duality of creation and
destruction. They don’t exist separately. For an event and happening to occur,
there has to be a balance between the two. Like human body survives on the principle
of the balance between creation and destruction. New cells are continuously
being created and old ones are dying. The circle. It holds the key to the
mystery.
The reality has loops of the so called dualities going side by
side, at all points, in all directions, and in all events. The counterweights.
The balance. Going on and on in loops. The ever-expanding universe and the
ever-dying universe. In loops. In circles. At countless points. Forever.
Explosions and implosions. Blasts and suction. Circular loops. Creation and
destruction. Creation and destruction. On and on. In circles. Expansion and
suction. Going from nowhere to everywhere and from everywhere to nowhere. And
passing through the point where you happen to read it presently.
Enjoy
the moment. Enjoy the ride. It’s a whole thoroughfare out of nothing. From
nothing to everything! No wonder, the net energy of the universe is zero. It’s
a cosmic heartbeat, with the only difference on the so called time scale. Your
heart beats once per second. The cosmic heart beats at the rate of billions of
years. It expands, it implodes. Endlessly. So don’t get doubts about the
eternity. It’s possible. If a clock pendulum can maintain its swing, why cannot
the cosmic cycle? When the pendulum is going to the right, it’s creating the
potential to travel leftwards, and vice versa. When the universe is expanding,
it’s creating the potential to implode. During implosion, it’s creating
potential to explode. Simple see-sawing with net zero energy! Isn’t it the
greatest trick by the existence?! Wednesday, January 9, 2019
My Latest Book: Ice Cubes on Desert Sands
There is no separate story. Stories weave into each other like a well-spun fabric. Stories are like rivers, ever flowing, existing yet not existing, shifting still static, different and similar at the same time.
The pieces. The patchwork. Stories within The Story. Yours and mine.
Be the princess of your story. The seed in you carries the potential to be the tallest, luxuriant-most tree. The powerful force of creation propels the potential for maximization. Nature doesn’t want it to be a world of half-smiles, half-growths, half-blossoms and half-potential. There is a tendency for fullness. It pulls the process of evolution for the maximum, for completion, for what we call greatness.
O my mind, my seat of potentiality, take my journey further,
Be the seat of my strength, not weakness,
Be the seat of kindness, not cruelty,
Be the source of light, not darkness.
You, me and all of us are born for the stories of greatness. Let’s share our stories to see through the journey. Please give me company while I tell a few stories!
The pieces. The patchwork. Stories within The Story. Yours and mine.
Be the princess of your story. The seed in you carries the potential to be the tallest, luxuriant-most tree. The powerful force of creation propels the potential for maximization. Nature doesn’t want it to be a world of half-smiles, half-growths, half-blossoms and half-potential. There is a tendency for fullness. It pulls the process of evolution for the maximum, for completion, for what we call greatness.
O my mind, my seat of potentiality, take my journey further,
Be the seat of my strength, not weakness,
Be the seat of kindness, not cruelty,
Be the source of light, not darkness.
You, me and all of us are born for the stories of greatness. Let’s share our stories to see through the journey. Please give me company while I tell a few stories!
Friday, January 4, 2019
Ice Cubes on Desert Sands
Sharing the link for my latest book. Kindly write a review on Amazon in case you choose to read it.
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