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About Me
- Sufi
- Hi, this is somebody who has taken the quieter by-lane to be happy. The hustle and bustle of the big, booming main street was too intimidating. Passing through the quieter by-lane I intend to reach a solitary path, laid out just for me, to reach my destiny, to be happy primarily, and enjoy the fruits of being happy. (www.sandeepdahiya.com)
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Monday, November 25, 2024
The richness of a simple mind
There is some manual task to be done.
Rashe Ram is my first option for anything requiring physical labor. I try my luck
to connect with him over his phone number. As expected the number is temporarily
out of service. He knows that he doesn’t need a phone much. Due to his honesty
in work he is much in demand, so the labor seekers would book his services by
launching a physical search and catching hold of him in person. And his secret
girlfriends also know where to find him whenever he is needed for his lover’s
duties, which is nothing more than a hurried plain mating even without having a
word. In any case he is a man of few words.
The work involves some repairs in the street
and we are gathered on the spot feeling not so good about not being able to
avail the services of the best worker. Then someone informs that Rashe was
recently picked up by the police for keeping fifteen little pouches of ganja.
We have just stopped talking about him and there comes Rashe Ram lumbering with
his usual carefree air, unconcerned about the big issues in life. He is much
hailed for his timely arrival.
He shyly denies my question about the
police episode. But when he sees that I’m serious about this quest he tells the
truth. ‘I had bought fifteen little pouches of ganja from Delhi for personal use.
The village police informer passed the information to the police. They picked
me up. Kept me there for couple of hours. They collected all the pouches and
took three thousand rupees to set me free.’ These are plain facts of his
arrest. Their significance in his life is limited to their literal meaning. His
is a mind unburdened of the polished maladies of overthinking, analysis and
psychological traumas born of such an inconsequential happening.
‘You don’t keep phone these days? I
tried but the number is out of service,’ I ask him. He has his tiny
non-smartphone with him. It’s a new number he tells me. The old number? I threw
away the chip in a nullah when the police were after me. We the clever people
think it proper to take his new number in order to avail his labor services
without delay in future. I ask my brother to note down his number because I
don’t have my phone with me. He also is enjoying a phone-free time which seems
a blessing, almost a vacation these days. Don’t we feel so relaxed when we step
out of the house without the one ton psychological weight of the phone? My
cousin brother is also having the same vacation. I ask the workers do they have
a pen, which was a foolish query because their pockets would have beedies, matchbox, tobacco or ganja—the
tools to beat the feeling of being disadvantaged in life by birth, the fate throwing
them into poverty right from the beginning. We seem to be at loss of words
about the daunting task regarding how to note down his number. With my amazing
creative skills I even think of writing it on the sand and then run home to
take my phone before some cattle either pees or defecates on my earthen
notebook.
‘Why don’t you just dial your number
from my phone?’ Rashe softly drools with his slurred, soft, noble giant’s
speech.
My software professional brother,
still carrying the classy fragrance of a recent official trip to a developed
country; my cousin brother carrying the high notes of confidence and youth
becoming of an enthusiastic entrepreneur; and me the man with a library of
books in the head—we have been caught on the wrong foot. Common sense seems to
be too exclusive for our educated, smart selves. Caught on such a wrong foot of
unawareness!
All three of us have an embarrassed
laugh. It’s very humbling. A basic dose of common sense is all that we need to
lead a happy life, to have a light mind unburdened of overthinking and hard-pressed
by weighty issues. Many villagers are straightaway dismissive about Rashe Ram
because he isn’t cunning and clever like the rest and this they interpret as
being a dumb person. But in his unburdened mind he carries enough common sense
to allow him a contended simple life.
The next day he is busy at the
assigned task. It involves clearing a big heap of bricks, boughs, plastic and
trash all jumbled together to form a nice century for reptiles and rodents. He
is working easefully but I’m worried for him because many snakes have been seen
around that place. I have already cautioned him multiple times about it but he
seems to carry on without minding my words too much. Then my over-concern
burdens his brain and he has to explain. ‘See, I have this stick with me.
Didn’t you see that each time I put my hands to pick up something, I first prod
the items with the stick so that the snake will crawl away,’ he slowly drawls.
It again is so-so humbling. In my eagerness to spot some snake I had completely
overlooked this simple man’s modest solution in dealing with the problem. Such
a simple solution for a risky task! In his place my educated mind would have
given me solutions like wearing knee-length jungle boots and gloves reaching
armpits to deal with the problem. I stand corrected like a little boy standing
in front of a stern headmaster.
The so-called common, simple, poor
people have huge common sense in their unburdened minds to help them wade
through the scores of daily challenges they have to face. I realize however
high and mighty be our knowledge, we miss on little nuggets of common sense.
But these are the little weapons in the hands of the common man to easily meet
the routine challenges of life.
Spinning the webs
The reality is dimensionless but it
has infinite potential for the generation of pseudo-realities. We have assumed
certain dimensions. And once we assume something—on the basis of our neural
networks—it’s already granted that we will generate a model to validate our
assumptions. Once we arrive at a conclusion, it isn’t something preexisting
absolute nugget that was there to be discovered. It has been generated. It is
an act of creation out of the pool of possibilities. It’s the manifestation of
the will to see something in a particular way. It’s the crop of the seeds that
we ourselves have sown with our effort and awareness. And what we generate is a
mere temporary phenomenon spinning around the unknown axis.